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Reflections on motherhood, power, autonomy, and the quiet conflicts that shape our lives. These essays explore the emotional and moral questions at the heart of The Good Mother Test—where personal experience meets fiction, and certainty is rarely simple.

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What violet teaches all of us about autonomy

Some readers see Violet as too perfect, too lucky, too detached. Adults cluster around her, wringing their hands over what’s best, while Violet seems unmoved.

Emily understands and respects her daughter’s moral compass and private will—a superpower used only when necessary. Violet deflects attention from her gifts and covers her mistakes quickly.

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The trad-husband

If asked to describe Doug, a mid-thirties, successful L.A. stockbroker—noble, popular, and insecure—I think trad-husband would not be inaccurate. He loves vintage cars, works out at an upscale gym, and as a scratch golfer gets invited by friends to play at their private clubs. His brief marriage to Emily produces a precocious child named Violet, with whom Doug remains close for the entire twenty years of the novel. In addition to giving Emily a super-generous settlement, he remains fiercely loving and giving to Violet.

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